“What would your 80-year-old self say if she saw you right now?” I love this question. I thank Julie M. Green for posing it in her piece at Real Zest. Do you believe when you reach 80 that you’ll look back of photos of yourself at 20, 30, 40 or even 50 and think:
“Look at that paunch! I really should have done more sit-ups.”
“Why didn’t I get a breast lift?”
“What was I thinking? I should have never gone out in public wearing a bikini!”
Or do you think your inner dialogue at 80 would probably sound something more like:
“Why did I obsess so much over my belly? I could have eaten more chocolate.”
“I didn’t realize I looked so good.”
“I really should have gone to the beach more.”
Today at 40-something, when I look at pictures of myself in my teens and twenties I can’t help but be saddened. My self-image was so distorted. I looked in the mirror and saw a young woman who was obese, when in fact I was nowhere near it. And even when I was at my highest weight, I can now look at my plus-size photos and see beauty. When I find myself reverting back to hating on my body, I call on what Green refers to as my “inner octogenarian” to shake me back to reality. In 40 years when I’m in my 80s, I have little doubt I will care how wide my backside is or how much my underarms jiggle.
How about you?
Read Green’s thoughtful post, What Would Your 80-Year-Old Self Say? at Real Zest.