Therese Shechter on Sexuality, Abstinence, and How to Lose your Virginity

StillVirgin

By Allison Epstein What is a virgin? It seems like a question with a straightforward answer – someone who’s never had sex...right? But in her new documentary How to Lose your Virginity, Therese Shechter wants us to know that the issue of virginity is not so simple. Okay, let’s say for the moment that a virgin is someone who has … [Read more...]

Boys and Sex: Why Are They Waiting Longer For Their First Time?

A still shot from the documentary, How to Lose Your Virginity

By Therese Shechter “The proportion of all American adolescents in their mid-teens claiming sexual experience has decreased, and for boys the decline has been especially steep,” writes Amy Schalet in her excellent New York Times article about boys becoming sexually active later than expected. It’s a timely conversation about … [Read more...]

Regenerating Hymens and Bloody Sheets: What’s Really Going On Down There?

HymenFilm

By Therese Shechter A few months ago at a dinner party, the topic of hymens came up (don’t all your dinner parties go like this?) and how on rare occasions the membrane is completely sealed and has to be surgically opened. One of the men there wondered how the condition could go unnoticed, seeing as it would block the … [Read more...]