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Does Make-up Make Mommy Beautiful?

Laura Tou

By Erin Brown from I Am Erin Brown, cross-posted with permission The first time I put on make-up in front of my daughter, she was just a few days old. She was lying there like a tiny lump of newborn human and I gave my first "you get to be who you are" speech. It went something like this: "Mommy likes to put on her eyebrows. You … [Read more...]

Excellence As a Survival Strategy for Black Women in Academia

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By Dellea K. Copeland for Conditionally Accepted, cross-posted with permission I am a 22-year-old queer womyn of color, first-generation college graduate, first generation American. I wear my afro like it's 1969. I speak openly about patriarchy and racism. On my desk, you will find an American flag that says "Black Lives … [Read more...]

Men, Eating Disorders, and Chasing Impossible Perfection

Esther Marí

By Z Zoccolante Sex sells, regardless of gender. Men, like women, are objectified. I've had more than one friend remind me of how a guy's dancing turns them on because it mimics how hot they'd be between the sheets. Hips don't lie, right? Still, we enjoy living in fantasy worlds. We like the escape. It's common for couples to … [Read more...]

How I Stopped Worrying and Started Loving My Boobs

Melissa Maples

By Lauren Hockenson for Femsplain, cross-posted with permission When I thought no one was looking, I locked myself in the bathroom that I shared with my four brothers and sisters to stare at myself in the mirror. At nearly eleven years old, scrawny and small, I could really only see the upper part of my torso. But that was all … [Read more...]

Popular Publishers Tell Women to Be a Man or Write Like One

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By Caryn Rubanovich I'm sitting in my writing seminar. Over this past semester, I've gotten to know my fellow classmates and their writing intimately. I've read their poems, fictional stories, non-fictional accounts. I've befriended, fallen in love with, and despised their intricately constructed characters. I've familiarized … [Read more...]

Guess What, Ladies: Phyllis Schlafly Thinks You Shouldn’t Go to College

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By Emma Cueto for Bustle, cross-posted with permission There are certain things in life you can count on — January is terrible, kittens are phenomenal, and any time Phyllis Schlafly is in the news, you're going to want to tear your hair out. Recently, Phyllis Schlafly has declared women should stop going to college, and that … [Read more...]

What’s Missing in Doctor Who

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By Laleh Ahmad, intern 2015 Doctor Who is a British show that originally aired in 1963 and continues up until now. It's a science-fiction show about a Time Lord called the Doctor, who time-travels in a ship called the TARDIS and teams up with a variety of companions to save civilizations, defeat alien foes, and right wrongs. It … [Read more...]

Cross-Country: On Feeling Safe

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By Hayley Krischer for The Toast, cross-posted with permission Editor's Note: This piece discusses instances of sexual assault and sexual violence that may be triggering for some readers. I traveled across country just before cell phones were widely available. My cousin in Baltimore had a cell phone, so my father instructed me … [Read more...]

I Learned To Be a Feminist From My Single Mom

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By Mac Premo at Tue/Night, cross-posted with permission. She just stood there, not moving, staring at a closed door. I was standing behind her, having come to the same complete stop as she did. I was confused as to why she wasn’t moving anymore. I was seven. Then it dawned on me: she was waiting for me to open that door for her. … [Read more...]

Sons of Anarchy’s Ron Perlman Proves Body Image Concerns Men Too

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By Asha Daya at GirlTalkHQ, cross-posted with permission Body image is a big deal in society today. A quick search of the term on our website will bring up a plethora of articles about celebrities, bloggers, moms, and women who have struggled with their self-image and want to speak up about it to empower others. But what about … [Read more...]