Leslie
Segarbetter known as Big Lezis a woman with
arms that would give any pro wrestler a run for his money,
a backside that puts Jennifer Lopez's to shame and sexy
lips that Angelina Jolie can only dream of. Here she tells
us about making it big in entertainment. by
Ihsan Muhammad
dancer, TV host, gymnast, and urban personality,
she's rocked every hip-hop video worth mentioning, and danced
through the opening credits of the sitcom "Living Single."
Like
most of us, Big Lez has struggled with body idiosyncrasies.
Her "authentic, eccentric, black woman's nose" was the subject
of many a high school joke. Her broad shoulders, thick thighs,
and ample frame, highly unique for a female gymnast and
dancer, earned her the nickname Big Lez, but kept her from
receiving principal dance roles. She's been dismissed by
music video casting directors who praised her dance ability,
but rejected her because her looks didn't fit the light-skinned,
thin, b-girl image they wanted to portray.
So,
Big Lez danced her way to the top. She had to make sure
that she was undeniably the strongest, most athletic, flexible,
and versatile dancer at every audition. When she didn't
get a gig, she had to throw her shoulders back, hold her
head high, and move on.
"I'm
a woman who loves being a woman and who's not afraid of
everything God has blessed me with," Big Lez declares. But
she just as easily admits that she has not always been so
confident: "During my college days I wouldn't walk on the
beach without a T-shirt on."
We
sat down with Big Lez for an informal chat about body image,
beauty, health, and more. Later, we joined her on a New
York City shopping spree to expose the shops that do not
cater to women of all sizes and to give props to those that
do. Big Lez does not hold her tongue: when gear didn't fit,
she didn't bullshit with the store clerks or managers.
Big
Lez challenges body-conscious young women to "know what
you want to do with your own body and be comfortable with
it, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally." To parents
who see unhealthy eating patterns developing with their
children, or harass kids about their weight, she says, "Look
at yourself first, because the problem may begin with you."
To
those of us who look to Hollywood starlets as the ideal
image of beauty and perfection, Lez advises, "Don't let
the Pamela Andersons and the Heather Locklears of the world
have you fooled. They may be tiny and making money, but
they're probably miserable." And she would know, because
she's always moving and shaking right beside them.