Dove Doesn’t Redefine Beauty, It Reinforces It

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Editor's note: At Adios Barbie, our goal is to bring you the best voices and resources on the web that empower you to be at home in your body, mind and soul,  free from external bias and internal constraint. We are thrilled to introduce you to the work of Beauty Redefined, who like us, are committed to a world where women and girls … [Read more...]

The King of Love is Dead but Not Forgotten

"Power at its best is love implementing the demands of justice. Justice at its best is love correcting everything that stands against love." ~Martin Luther King Jr.

Today, it seemed rather disingenuous to maintain our regular posting schedule without honoring a major influence. Our work at Adios Barbie, and the principles around its creation in 1998, are based on the idea of loving non-violence--in both word and deed. It was the unique idea of love with a capitol "L" that Dr. Martin Luther … [Read more...]

White Privilege and the Problem with Ani DiFranco’s Apology

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by Pia Guerrero   If you haven’t heard by now, many folks—not just Black feminists —are outraged with Ani DiFranco, singer, songwriter, activist and feminist icon. DiFranco planned her “Righteous Retreat” songwriter camp to be held at a former slave plantation where hundreds of slaves were tortured and murdered. From … [Read more...]

Modern Beauty Standards Imposed on Classic Art Show Narrowness of Today’s Ideal

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by Rebecca Hains Originally published at rebeccahains.wordpress.com; cross-posted with permission. Several years ago, I was admiring the Venus de Milo at the Louvre when a group of American teens approached. Eyeing the statue, one girl blurted out: “She’s so fat.”Her friends laughed and agreed, but her comment just made me … [Read more...]

6 Ways to Survive Food and the Holidays

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by Erin McKelle, Intern (2013) It's that time of year! Yes, the holidays have come around once again. Most of us, at least to some degree, look forward to the holidays. It’s a chance to catch up with family, eat some delicious food and show your loved ones how much you appreciate them. But, there are some downsides to the … [Read more...]

Black Women’s Asses, Cosmetic Surgery, and the Politics of Ambition

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By Aya de Leon As an ambitious woman of color, I avidly read commentary this season on Julie Chen’s remorseless decision to have eyelid surgery. With East Asian women, the body part targeted for racism is often the eyes. With black women, the first line of attack is on the hair. But our hair is a moving target.  Always growing, … [Read more...]

Body Dysmorphic Disorder: What it Looks Like

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by Brian Cuban, Contributor I first began to see my body reflection differently in my teens.  I was the victim of fat shaming at home and weight bullying/teasing in school including a physical assault. When I looked in the mirror or saw my reflection in a store window, I had an overwhelming feeling that I had this grotesque … [Read more...]

Jesus Wasn’t Hot

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Editor's Note: The religious beliefs shared in this post do not necessarily reflect those of Adios Barbie. We welcome many voices and perspectives relevant to our mission.  By Chine Mbubaegbu, Threads Jesus probably wouldn’t have been cast in a movie to play himself. He wouldn’t ave been deemed pretty enough. Call me a … [Read more...]

Brave Girls Want Dolls That Do Not Originate In or Reflect Porn Culture – NSFW

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A guest post by Charlotte Kugler, originally posted at Pigtail Pals and Ballcap Buddies *Editor’s Note: Given a contentious facebook discussion this morning, I want to make it clear that myself, Charlotte, and much of the PPBB community understands there are boys and men who enjoy MLP and are great, non-pervy guys. This post … [Read more...]

“Yoga Body”: The Conspiracy

Quote on image: "Yoga is really trying to liberate us from...shame about our bodies. To love your body is a very important thing." Rodney Yee

By Danielle Prohom Olson, Yoga Divine Yoga I thought I’d said all I wanted on body image and yoga in my last post but controversy in the yoga world regarding a certain video has left me feeling I didn’t say nearly enough. Or say it clearly enough. So let me try again. The taut and toned ‘yoga body’ on display in the media … [Read more...]