Sons of Anarchy’s Ron Perlman Proves Body Image Concerns Men Too

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By Asha Daya at GirlTalkHQ, cross-posted with permission Body image is a big deal in society today. A quick search of the term on our website will bring up a plethora of articles about celebrities, bloggers, moms, and women who have struggled with their self-image and want to speak up about it to empower others. But what about … [Read more...]

Hey Facebook: Ditch the Body-Shaming Emoticons

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By Allison Epstein Love it or hate it, when Facebook rolled out its new "Feelings" feature mid-2013, the nature of the status update shifted. If you were like me, you gave it some serious side-eye at first. Do we really need our social networks to express our emotions for us? Have we lost the ability to type "Feeling good … [Read more...]

The Reasoning Behind My Public Battle with L’Oreal

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By Jessica Assaf at Beauty Lies Truth, cross-posted with permission I have been trying to educate the public about the unregulated beauty industry for almost ten years. Whenever I tell someone about the potentially harmful ingredients in our cosmetics and skincare, these are two typical responses:     There … [Read more...]

Exploiting Impostor Syndrome

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By s.e. smith at This Ain't Livin', cross-posted with permission Impostor syndrome: The feeling that you're not really qualified for something, that you are pretending, that you will, at any moment, be caught out by someone who actually knows what she is doing. The constant nagging fear of humiliation as people realize that you … [Read more...]

Skinny Women, Fat Paychecks: Weight Discrimination in the Office

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By Briana North Bad news, ladies: we not only have to worry about the ongoing gender wage gap, it turns out we have to worry about a weight wage gap as well. Oh, and what's more, that weight discrimination is inextricably linked to gender. Prejudice and Pounds Sadly, weight-based discrimination is hardly new and hardly … [Read more...]

“He’s Wearing What?!” and Other Frequent Responses to Gender Variance

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By Tasha Sanders, Intern 2014 It's another blazing hot summer day as my 7-year-old son and I careen down the highway. The first day of school is mere days away, and we are on our way to one last hurrah—ice cream at our favorite shop. I glance at him in the rearview mirror and notice him brush his gorgeous red hair from his eyes. … [Read more...]

Break My Nose and Make Me Pretty: Why I Said No to Plastic Surgery

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By Z Zoccolante The doctor holds his finger against the bridge of my nose, covering the small bump. In the mirror, my profile looms. Little fairies jump on a trampoline in my belly. Black Sharpie lines conjoin in a fractured map along my nose, outlining the nose I've always wanted. I am sixteen and time spills before me like a … [Read more...]

Mom, Dad: Meet My Eating Disorder

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By Hannah White Anorexia is innately personal. It's between you and your flesh, you and your bones. It's a body count of one. It causes you to withdraw within yourself, to turn from our food-laden world and burrow into a space of so-called control. Your "safe foods" go into your mouth, and no one else's. It's not a plea for … [Read more...]

The Accidental Racism of Matthew McConaughey’s Redskins Nostalgia

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By Olivia A. Cole for The Daily Dot, with permission Too many conversations destined for doom begin with sentences like this: "We were all fine with it back in the good old days!" Matthew McConaughey has found himself bathed in unwelcome limelight after expressing something similar: his desire for the Redskins' mascot (which has … [Read more...]

Why We Compare Ourselves to Others on Social Media and How to Stop

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By Emily Holland for Tiny Buddha, cross-posted with permission "The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel." –Steve Furtick We all have certain triggers that can cause our confidence to take a sudden nosedive. For some, it's a trip to the gym. If … [Read more...]