
In
July 1999, AdiosBarbie.com acquired an angel. His
name was George Jacksonand he was a sizeable
man in every sense. George had a loving, funny, and full-bodied
presence. He was also highly accomplished. In addition to
serving as CEO of Motown Records, George produced a run
of memorable urban blockbusters (Krush Groove, House Party,
New Jack City, Jason's Lyric), changing the face of movies
to include a diverse new audience.
George's
last enterprise was an Internet startup called Urban Box
Office. UBO is network of sites for an urban-minded audience.
For nine months, AdiosBarbie.com was part of this incubatory
mix. Although the site is now independently-owned and no
longer part of UBO, George's stamp was permanent.
It
started with a call from George in the summer of 1999. "Hello,
this is Adios Ken," he quipped. "Can I speak to Ophira?"
Turned
out a friend had visited UBO, and introduced George to AdiosBarbie.com.
George was excited by the idea, and invited me to come develop
the site with his company's resources.
I
met George for dinner that week. It was one of the most
inspiring nights of my life. Not only did he "get" why the
site is important for us women, he appreciated my desire
to expand the body image dialogue to include women of all
cultures and sizes.
George
talked about his young daughter Kona, who is half-Black
and half-Japanese. "I want her to grow up and have a site
like this," he told me. "Something that, when kids call
her names, will tell her it's okay to be who she is." As
soon as he said that, I knew I had to work with this man.
I
was never sure if George liked the site for personal reasons,
too. He was a big guy himself, almost 300 pounds. "If you
don't look like Barbie, act like Barbie, or fit that Barbie
doll image, that's okay," George would always say.
In
late January, George and I sat down to meet. "Ophi, I want
you to make a really smart, empowering site for women,"
he told me. "This is going to be really big." His eyes lit
up with a soft, faraway look, and I got goosebumps--I could
just tell he BELIEVED.
I was sitting with a visionary, and he was imagining great
things for a website I built as a labor of love in my apartment.
And he was radiating such loving energy toward the site,
I believed him, too.
Then,
on February 10, 2000, George passed away. Only
42 years old, he suffered a sudden stroke and heart attack,
and died a week later. He never saw AdiosBarbie.com relaunch.
We
will miss George unspeakablyas a mentor, a leader,
and an inspiration. AdiosBarbie.com won't be the same without
him. I feel blessed and grateful to have known him. In such
a short time, George literally made my dreams come true.
The
entertainment industry is hardly kind to women's body image.
Who would have thought that an entertainment mogul--a man,
no less--would champion a website like AdiosBarbie.com?
Yet, George was more supportive than some of the women I've
encountered in the media business.
In
loving memory of Georgea man generous in size and
spiritwe dedicate this site to you.

Ophira
Edut
Site Founder